Opinion!
I have a family (talking about mother and her youngest child) Yes I am hurt and PO at them at this time!
I am the middle of the family and while living at home went through alot of shit! We all would have house work to do but who end up doing them?.....BINGO!
Anyway this is about recent shit that had happened and I would like opinion or suggestion on this.
I went back home to live and be closer to the family. Well that was a mistake! No matter what the gathering was for we were there. Well finally I was getting calls from friends or friends would see me or family members would call and asked why I put up with mother and lit' sister shit. At first didn't know what they were talking about . Well I listened to them and next time went to gathering and was listening and watching their eyes and face expresstion. Yes I cought on to what everyone was saying.
Well what really did me in then was My husband and I was haviing a hard time with our oldest.(THANK TO THE LAW FOR NO HELP.... DUE TO THEY DO NOT ENFORCE THEIR LAWS AND THEY ALSO HELP KIDS OUT AND PARTY WITH THEM AND HELP THEM HIDE OUT!) so any way child told father F___ YOU! and yes he got carry away and slapped her in the mouth well than he was arrested for it.(AGAIN THE LAW WAS NO HELP!)
Any way I let his mom know what was going on and my mother found out a few days by my dad's boss and boy was she mad . Well I did called her to let her know what had happened but all I heard from her was Shelly this and Debbie that so I figure what the hell is the use. Well when she did find out she called me back about half hour later after I called. Well she was upset oh well! Than a few day later I recieved a phone call from my mother in law asking me what is my mother doing? I asked what she was talking about and she told me about a copy of my husband jail log from the paper and a little note she wrote in there and I was asked when did my husband hit me before!
To be honest I am still trying to find that date myself.But not only did she just send it to her there were other members also.
Well I refuse to talk to mother and sisters for 2 years, finally got a letter from mother telling me she had a heart attack! That same day recieved a phone call from little sister CRYING! her eyes out that mother was in the hospital with a heart attack. Got the name of the hospital and come to find out she wasn't there. So talked to Dad and found out the whole truth. As always never get the Whole story just what they want me to know.
So again I kept in tooch with them. Til last week. I notice how mother would write and tell me about her and two sisters all were doing their things and sister is a grandmother of 2 already! but any way notice how she had the kids all the time so yes I asked mother about their mother.
I couldn't believe that she actually had to ask for permission to tell me what she was up to. All I really asked wass how was she and why is oldest sister have the kids all the time? So I did wrote back to mother and told her I was sorry she had to go through the bullshit just to tell me how the niece was.
On the ICQ I asked why did she had to ask for permission?.....MOTHER respond was she repect other privatcy!......HA,HA, right she does only those who mean more to her than others.
I asked her when is she gonna learn to respect mine?. Now I refuse to talk to them again.
Tell me what do you think about this am I in the wrong or is mother showing favoritism?
Please feel free to give your opinion and would like to hear suggestion on what to do here.
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